Whether it is your first time, or your hundredth time, going to court can be a stressful experience. If it is your first time, it’s natural to be nervous about what to expect and to want to be prepared for your day in court. Many unexpected things can come up in court so it’s best to be as prepared as possible to put your best foot forward. This can raise questions about how one can best prepare before going to court. Below are some simple steps that will help you prepare for your court hearing.
1. Prepare Before Your Court Hearing.
The best ways to feel comfortable at your court hearing to prepare before the day. First, you should know exactly what is pending before the court at your hearing. During your trial, you may need to go to court multiple times over different issues in your case. To begin to prepare for your court hearing, you need to know what the issue the court is considering that day. Second, you should know what you are going to say in court. It is best to prepare for your hearing with your attorney. They will discuss potential questions that may be asked by your attorney or the opposing attorney, so you know what to expect on the day. Preparing will help to minimize the chance of unexpected questions or events throwing you off in court. It will also help you feel more comfortable when you testify.
2. Dress appropriately.
During your hearing, you want to make a good impression on the judge and dressing appropriately is an important part of that. You want to show that you are taking the process seriously. A good rule of thumb is to act like you are going to a job interview. This means being well-groomed and dressing professionally. You want to avoid flashy colors, remove distracting jewelry, and minimize any distractions. It’s also important to make sure that that you will feel comfortable and look professional no matter the temperature in the courtroom. This means bringing a jacket wearing something that looks professional with or without your jacket.
3. Get to Court Early.
Starting your court hearing off right means being at the courthouse before your hearing is set to start. To do that, you want to give yourself plenty of time to get to the courthouse and to get settled in at the courthouse. There are many potential complications that could cause you to run late to court. These include traffic on the way to court, finding parking near the courthouse, and issues locating the courtroom you need to be in. Additionally, when you get to the courthouse you may have to go thought security and metal detectors. With that, remember that your bags and packages are subject to inspection, no weapons are allowed in the courthouse, and some courts do not allow outside food, drinks, or your cellphone. You also want to give yourself time to settle in after you’ve arrived at the courthouse. This could include going to the bathroom, speaking to your attorney about any pressing final questions, or taking a moment to mentally prepare prior to the hearing.
4. Be Respectful.
It’s important to be respectful and polite while in court. When you are in the courtroom make sure your phone is on silent and turned off. Additionally, you should stand when the judge enters and exits the courtroom. If you are directly addressing the judge, you should refer to them as your honor. You should listen carefully, make sure not to interrupt others, and wait for your turn to speak. Unless you are giving testimony, any comments should be directed to your attorney. While testifying, everything you say is being recorded by the court reporter for the official record, so make sure you are speaking clearly and at a volume where you can easily be heard. Ultimately, it’s important to remember not to lose your temper. There may be things said or alleged during the court hearing that you do not agree with or think are false. While this can be upsetting, angering, or disheartening, you need to keep your temper and emotions in check. Your attorney will have the opportunity to address any evidence or testimony presented that you believe is false. Additionally, it’s important to remember that losing your temper only damages your image.
5. Bringing Support.
It is okay to have a limited number of friends or family in the court to support you during your court hearing. With that, there are some important things to keep in mind. First, while you can bring support, you should not bring your child to court unless you have been specifically asked to do so by the Court. Second, you must keep in mind that your supporter’s behavior is a reflection on you. So, if you have family or friends coming for support, make sure they know to dress and act appropriately in the courtroom.
This blog post was written by attorneys at Dixon & Moseley, P. C., who handle the full spectrum of domestic issues, including premarital agreements, paternity matters, divorces, grandparent rights, appeals and adoptions. We hope it has provided you with useful information. This blog is not a solicitation for legal services or a specific legal advice. It is an advertisement.
